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which we had to sell, we had       I now more than ever feel like        mama me-time                                                                                                mother, baby & child April 2011
shared many things, which we       an amazing woman. I have
had to divide between us. For      remarried, this time for the last  and can hold my head high
the second time in my life, I had  time, to a man who understands     when I say: Yes, I did it by
to find myself a new home at       and who gives me the space         myself.
the end of a relationship. But     and respect that I need. He
this time it was much easier: I    knows that my family                mofdg“anAreahmaoutasshtfnigphiledxhialpieercitsfyhe,etbrr,oriseelgawwvadmiguwrveinenteytidhniengfir.ueege”sl
knew myself and what I wanted,
and I knew that I could get over   is everything to me and accepts
it. I had done it before. So I     the memories I carry. Soon I will
grew my roots in yet another       retire, so I can spend more time
place.                             with my husband and watch
                                   my grandchildren grow. When I
        Then something             look back on the last twenty-five
happened that gave a whole         years of my life, I know that I
new meaning to my life: I was      have been through tragic times
going to be a grandmother! A       and challenging moments. But
new chapter was about to start,    because I lived through them
a chapter that would show me       all, I feel overwhelmed by the
that more love and happiness       rewards my life brought me.
were yet to come. After my         People around me are proud
first granddaughter was born, I    of me, and I know that I am
decided to change my life and      one of the many strong and
sold my shop. I took my work on    courageous women in this
the road, travelling from place    world. I have remained a
to place to share my knowledge     woman, a mother and a wife,
with other shop owners across
the country. It gave me other
responsibilities and experience,
but also a lot more freedom. As
a revenge on the tragedies of
life, my daughters were happy
with their own families, giving
me six beautiful grandchildren.
Through them all, I could see
my late husband living. It was
always very important to my
daughters to speak about their
father, to their husband
and their children. Everybody
knows what a wonderful man,
husband and father he was. I
do not feel lonely any more.
I have a fantastic family, and I
share every moment with them.
I am lucky to be surrounded
by my parents, my sisters and
my children, four generations
– until not that long ago there
were even five generations –
still united in happy and sad
times. I have succeeded in my
professional life, as a proud
mother and grandmother, and

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