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the new family

How much is too much
when it comes to

sheltering your kids?

Every child needs protection….but many parents let their own insecurities
take this element of parenting to the extreme.The mere notion that a
child must be shielded from all pain is neither practical nor realistic.

Overdoing it Synergy Integrated Medical League, piano lessons and Story mother, baby & child April 2011
Centre, parents might shelter Hour. Children never get to play
As infants, parents feel their kids out of worry and freely with other children - there
responsible to protect their fear for their safety. “Parents is always adult supervision. This
babies from the ‘big bad world’, might be afraid of negative means they don’t learn to be
but as those babies grow into consequences if too much “streetwise” by exploring and
young children, then teens freedom is given to a child,” roaming their neighbourhoods.
and adults, they have to make she explains as well as cultural Supervised play also has the
their own way into the world components also can have an effect of cushioning children
and cannot be protected all impact on how much parents against the natural and
their lives. Once upon a time shelter their children. sometimes nasty give-and-take
kids played outside, walked between peers - a process
to school and learned on their The Effects that provides valuable life
own. A skinned knee was lessons. Children need to learn
simply bandaged up; so why There are no more pick-up how to negotiate their own
the extreme overprotection? baseball games or playing disagreements and choose
According to Alaa AbuAli, dolls under big trees. Childhood their natural leaders. Studies,
Counselling Psychologist in is all about Scouts, Little

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